工作与使命 · Work & vocation · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
和同事冲突Conflict with a coworker
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
所以你们既是 神的选民、圣洁蒙爱的人、就要存怜悯、恩慈、谦虚、温柔、忍耐的心。 倘若这人与那人有嫌隙、总要彼此包容、彼此饶恕．主怎样饶恕了你们、你们也要怎样饶恕人。 在这一切之外、要存着爱心．爱心就是联络全德的。 又要叫基督的平安在你们心里作主．你们也为此蒙召、归为一体．且要存感谢的心。 当用各样的智慧、把基督的道理、丰丰富富的存在心里、用诗章、颂词、灵歌、彼此教导、互相劝戒心被恩感歌颂 神。 无论作甚么、或说话、或行事、都要奉主耶稣的名、借着他感谢父 神。
English
Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. And what soever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
歌罗西书这段劝勉把怜悯、谦卑、忍耐、饶恕与感谢放在群体生活中。工作场合的应用，是思考这些品格怎样进入日常相处。 我和同事有误会，希望能够诚实沟通而不扩大伤害。误会会让我们只想证明自己；和平从准确听懂对方开始。今天可以从一个小而具体的回应开始：约一次简短沟通，先复述对方的顾虑。
English
This passage in Colossians places compassion, humility, patience, forgiveness, and gratitude within shared life. Its workplace application asks how these qualities shape everyday interaction. A misunderstanding with a coworker needs honest conversation without more harm. Misunderstanding makes us eager to prove ourselves. Peace begins by hearing the other person accurately. Begin with a small concrete response today: Arrange a short conversation and restate the other's concern first.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
面对“和同事冲突”，我最需要诚实承认什么？今天如何实践这段经文？
English
As I reflect on “Conflict with a coworker”, what do I need to acknowledge honestly? How could I practice this passage today?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
约一次简短沟通，先复述对方的顾虑。
English
Arrange a short conversation and restate the other's concern first.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，我和同事有误会，希望能够诚实沟通而不扩大伤害。求你在这个处境中陪伴我，使我不必隐藏真实的感受。误会会让我们只想证明自己；和平从准确听懂对方开始。请赐我分辨与勇气，让我今天愿意这样回应：约一次简短沟通，先复述对方的顾虑。当结果还未明朗时，帮助我耐心尽自己的责任，也接受可信之人的支持。愿我的言语与行动显出爱，把无法掌握的部分交托给你。奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, A misunderstanding with a coworker needs honest conversation without more harm. Be with me here and help me bring my feelings honestly before you. Misunderstanding makes us eager to prove ourselves. Peace begins by hearing the other person accurately. Give me wisdom and courage to respond today: Arrange a short conversation and restate the other's concern first. While the outcome is uncertain, help me fulfill my responsibilities patiently and receive support from trustworthy people. Let my words and actions show love as I entrust what I cannot control to you. In Jesus' name, amen.