饶恕与和好 · Forgiveness & reconciliation · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
关系尚未安全 · 回顾并继续同行Reconciliation is not safe yet · Review and keep going
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
不要以恶报恶、众人以为美的事、要留心去作。 若是能行、总要尽力与众人和睦。 亲爱的弟兄、不要自己伸冤、宁可让步、听凭主怒．因为经上记着、『主说、伸冤在我．我必报应。』 所以『你的仇敌若饿了、就给他吃．若渴了、就给他喝．因为你这样行、就是把炭火堆在他的头上。』 你不可为恶所胜、反要以善胜恶。
English
Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
罗马书 12 劝勉信徒不报复，并在力所能及的范围寻求和平。这段也把审判交给神；应用时应区分和平、恢复亲近和保障安全。 我愿意寻求内心的医治，但这段关系目前还不适合恢复亲近。和好需要安全、责任与改变；保留距离也可以是保护生命的诚实选择。今天可以从一个小而具体的回应开始：与可信的人讨论安全界限，不单独冒险见面。 回顾不是给自己评分，而是看见哪里有一点变化、哪里仍然需要时间与别人的陪伴。成长可以缓慢，也可以寻求帮助。
English
Romans 12 urges believers to refuse revenge and seek peace as far as possible, entrusting judgment to God. Application must distinguish peace, renewed closeness, and safety. I seek healing, but renewed closeness in this relationship is not safe now. Reconciliation needs safety, accountability, and change. Distance can be an honest protection of life. Begin with a small concrete response today: Discuss safe boundaries with someone trustworthy; avoid risky meetings alone. Review is not a scorecard. Notice small changes, what still needs time, and where another person's company may help. Growth can be slow.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「关系尚未安全」中，这一周什么有变化？下一步我需要谁的支持？
English
As I reflect on “Reconciliation is not safe yet”: What changed this week, and whose support do I need next?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
写下一项变化与一项仍需帮助的事。
English
Write down one change and one area where you still need help.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，我愿意寻求内心的医治，但这段关系目前还不适合恢复亲近。谢谢你陪伴我走到这里。请让我耐心继续，也愿意接受合适的帮助。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, I seek healing, but renewed closeness in this relationship is not safe now. Thank you for accompanying me this far. Help me continue patiently and receive fitting support. In Jesus' name, amen.