抉择与引导 · Decisions & guidance · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
家庭责任 · 看见身边的人A family responsibility · Notice the people involved
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
我儿、不要忘记我的法则．你心要谨守我的诫命． 因为他必将长久的日子、生命的年数、与平安、加给你。 不可使慈爱诚实离开你．要系在你颈项上、刻在你心版上． 这样、你必在 神和世人眼前蒙恩宠、有聪明。 你要专心仰赖耶和华、不可倚靠自己的聪明． 在你一切所行的事上、都要认定他、他必指引你的路。 不要自以为有智慧．要敬畏耶和华、远离恶事． 这便医治你的肚脐、滋润你的百骨。
English
My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments: For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee. Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart: So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man. Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil. It shall be health to thy navel, and marrow to thy bones.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
箴言 3 把信靠、谦卑与生活道路连在一起。智慧文学给出塑造生命的方向，不能被当作一次选择必定顺利的预测公式。 家人需要我作决定，我想认真听见每个人的需要。家庭责任常需要共同协商；默默承担全部，未必是最有爱的办法。今天可以从一个小而具体的回应开始：召开一次简短家庭讨论，分配一项责任。 我的处境也牵连着别人。认真分辨谁需要被倾听、谁能提供支持，以及哪些边界需要被尊重。
English
Proverbs 3 connects trust and humility with life's path. Wisdom literature shapes a direction for life rather than predicting that any particular choice will succeed. My family needs a decision, and I want to listen to each person's needs. Family responsibilities need shared discussion. Carrying everything silently is not always the most loving path. Begin with a small concrete response today: Have a brief family discussion and share one responsibility. My situation also involves other people. Consider who needs to be heard, who can offer support, and which boundaries deserve respect.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「家庭责任」中，谁的需要还没有被我听见？
English
As I reflect on “A family responsibility”: Whose need have I not yet heard?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
向一位合适的人提出一个具体、尊重边界的问题。
English
Ask an appropriate person one specific question while respecting boundaries.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，家人需要我作决定，我想认真听见每个人的需要。帮助我在关心自己时，也以尊重和爱对待身边的人。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, My family needs a decision, and I want to listen to each person's needs. Help me care for myself while treating those around me with respect and love. In Jesus' name, amen.