养育与成长 · Parenting & growth · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
当父母也需要道歉 · 把感受说清楚When a parent needs to apologize · Name the feeling
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
以色列阿、你要听．耶和华我们 神是独一的主。 你要尽心、尽性、尽力、爱耶和华你的 神。 我今日所吩咐你的话、都要记在心上． 也要殷勤教训你的儿女、无论你坐在家里、行在路上、躺下、起来、都要谈论。 也要系在手上为记号、戴在额上为经文。 又要写在你房屋的门框上、并你的城门上。
English
Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD: And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
申命记 6 向以色列讲述爱神与把教导带入日常生活。亲子应用可以从真实的相处开始，让学习进入作息和对话，而不只成为知识考试。 我误解了孩子，发现事实以后却有点放不下大人的面子。父母的榜样也包括承认错误。认真道歉能让孩子看见，责任与尊重不是只向小孩子提出。 今天的一小步：说明自己误会了什么，向孩子道歉并听他回应。 感受值得被承认，但感受不是全部事实。试着区分已经发生的事、自己的解释和还不知道的部分。
English
Deuteronomy 6 addresses Israel about loving God and bringing teaching into daily life. Parenting application can begin with routines and conversation rather than treating faith as a knowledge exam. I misunderstood my child and struggle to admit it after learning the facts. A parent's example includes admitting error. An apology shows that responsibility and respect also apply to adults. A small step today: Explain what you misunderstood, apologize, and listen to your child's response. Feelings deserve acknowledgment, but they are not the whole story. Distinguish what happened, your interpretation, and what remains unknown.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「当父母也需要道歉」中，哪些是事实，哪些是我目前的猜测？
English
As I reflect on “When a parent needs to apologize”: What are facts, and what are still my guesses?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
把事实与猜测分成两栏写下。
English
Write facts and guesses in two separate columns.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，我误解了孩子，发现事实以后却有点放不下大人的面子。赐我诚实面对感受的勇气，也赐我分辨事实与猜测的耐心。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, I misunderstood my child and struggle to admit it after learning the facts. Give me courage to face my feelings and patience to separate facts from assumptions. In Jesus' name, amen.