工作与使命 · Work & vocation · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
不同意却不敢表达 · 先安静下来Disagreeing respectfully at work · Pause and become still
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
所以你们既是 神的选民、圣洁蒙爱的人、就要存怜悯、恩慈、谦虚、温柔、忍耐的心。 倘若这人与那人有嫌隙、总要彼此包容、彼此饶恕．主怎样饶恕了你们、你们也要怎样饶恕人。 在这一切之外、要存着爱心．爱心就是联络全德的。 又要叫基督的平安在你们心里作主．你们也为此蒙召、归为一体．且要存感谢的心。 当用各样的智慧、把基督的道理、丰丰富富的存在心里、用诗章、颂词、灵歌、彼此教导、互相劝戒心被恩感歌颂 神。 无论作甚么、或说话、或行事、都要奉主耶稣的名、借着他感谢父 神。
English
Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. And what soever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
歌罗西书这段劝勉把怜悯、谦卑、忍耐、饶恕与感谢放在群体生活中。工作场合的应用，是思考这些品格怎样进入日常相处。 会议上我看见一个隐患，却担心表达不同意见会被讨厌。和平的相处也需要负责任地说真话。用问题、事实和建议表达不同，可以同时保留尊重。 今天的一小步：准备一句基于事实的提问，并提出一个可行替代方案。 这一次先不急着解决整件事。留意身体、环境和心里的声音，把此刻真实的需要带到神面前。
English
This passage in Colossians places compassion, humility, patience, forgiveness, and gratitude within shared life. Its workplace application asks how these qualities shape everyday interaction. I notice a concern in a meeting but fear being disliked for disagreeing. Peaceful relationships also need responsible truthfulness. Questions, facts, and suggestions can communicate disagreement respectfully. A small step today: Prepare one fact-based question and a workable alternative. Do not rush to solve the whole situation. Notice your body, surroundings, and inner voice, and bring your present need before God.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「不同意却不敢表达」中，此刻最需要被看见的一件事是什么？
English
As I reflect on “Disagreeing respectfully at work”: What most needs to be noticed right now?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
留出三分钟安静，写下一句真实的感受。
English
Take three quiet minutes and write one honest feeling.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，会议上我看见一个隐患，却担心表达不同意见会被讨厌。求你帮助我放慢脚步，诚实看见此刻，而不急于给自己下结论。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, I notice a concern in a meeting but fear being disliked for disagreeing. Help me slow down and see this moment honestly without rushing to a verdict about myself. In Jesus' name, amen.