工作与使命 · Work & vocation · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
不同意却不敢表达 · 看见身边的人Disagreeing respectfully at work · Notice the people involved
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
所以你们既是 神的选民、圣洁蒙爱的人、就要存怜悯、恩慈、谦虚、温柔、忍耐的心。 倘若这人与那人有嫌隙、总要彼此包容、彼此饶恕．主怎样饶恕了你们、你们也要怎样饶恕人。 在这一切之外、要存着爱心．爱心就是联络全德的。 又要叫基督的平安在你们心里作主．你们也为此蒙召、归为一体．且要存感谢的心。 当用各样的智慧、把基督的道理、丰丰富富的存在心里、用诗章、颂词、灵歌、彼此教导、互相劝戒心被恩感歌颂 神。 无论作甚么、或说话、或行事、都要奉主耶稣的名、借着他感谢父 神。
English
Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. And what soever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
歌罗西书这段劝勉把怜悯、谦卑、忍耐、饶恕与感谢放在群体生活中。工作场合的应用，是思考这些品格怎样进入日常相处。 会议上我看见一个隐患，却担心表达不同意见会被讨厌。和平的相处也需要负责任地说真话。用问题、事实和建议表达不同，可以同时保留尊重。 今天的一小步：准备一句基于事实的提问，并提出一个可行替代方案。 我的处境也牵连着别人。认真分辨谁需要被倾听、谁能提供支持，以及哪些边界需要被尊重。
English
This passage in Colossians places compassion, humility, patience, forgiveness, and gratitude within shared life. Its workplace application asks how these qualities shape everyday interaction. I notice a concern in a meeting but fear being disliked for disagreeing. Peaceful relationships also need responsible truthfulness. Questions, facts, and suggestions can communicate disagreement respectfully. A small step today: Prepare one fact-based question and a workable alternative. My situation also involves other people. Consider who needs to be heard, who can offer support, and which boundaries deserve respect.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「不同意却不敢表达」中，谁的需要还没有被我听见？
English
As I reflect on “Disagreeing respectfully at work”: Whose need have I not yet heard?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
向一位合适的人提出一个具体、尊重边界的问题。
English
Ask an appropriate person one specific question while respecting boundaries.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，会议上我看见一个隐患，却担心表达不同意见会被讨厌。帮助我在关心自己时，也以尊重和爱对待身边的人。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, I notice a concern in a meeting but fear being disliked for disagreeing. Help me care for myself while treating those around me with respect and love. In Jesus' name, amen.