饶恕与和好 · Forgiveness & reconciliation · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
从自责走向承担 · 用自己的话祷告From blame to responsibility · Pray in your own words
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
不要以恶报恶、众人以为美的事、要留心去作。 若是能行、总要尽力与众人和睦。 亲爱的弟兄、不要自己伸冤、宁可让步、听凭主怒．因为经上记着、『主说、伸冤在我．我必报应。』 所以『你的仇敌若饿了、就给他吃．若渴了、就给他喝．因为你这样行、就是把炭火堆在他的头上。』 你不可为恶所胜、反要以善胜恶。
English
Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
罗马书 12 劝勉信徒不报复，并在力所能及的范围寻求和平。这段也把审判交给神；应用时应区分和平、恢复亲近和保障安全。 我反复说自己太差，却迟迟没有处理做错的事。在这个具体处境中，先看清已经发生的事，再分辨我能承担的部分。信仰的回应可以在一次诚实的表达与一个具体行动中慢慢展开。 今天可以这样练习：把自我攻击改写成事实、受影响的人和一个补救时间。 祷告不需要表演平静。可以把感谢、害怕、疑问和盼望依次说出来，也可以留一段安静。
English
Romans 12 urges believers to refuse revenge and seek peace as far as possible, entrusting judgment to God. Application must distinguish peace, renewed closeness, and safety. I repeatedly call myself terrible but postpone addressing what I did. Begin with what actually happened and distinguish your responsibilities. A faithful response can unfold through honest words and a concrete action. A practice for today: Replace self-attack with the fact, the person affected, and a time for repair. Prayer does not require a performance of calm. Name gratitude, fear, questions, and hope in turn, and leave room for silence.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「从自责走向承担」中，如果不需要修饰，我会怎样祷告？
English
As I reflect on “From blame to responsibility”: What would I pray if I did not need to polish my words?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
写四句短祷告：感谢、担忧、请求、交托。
English
Write four short prayer lines: thanks, worry, request, and release.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，我反复说自己太差，却迟迟没有处理做错的事。我愿用自己的话来到你面前；即使词句不完整，也求你垂听。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, I repeatedly call myself terrible but postpone addressing what I did. I come in my own words; even when they are unfinished, hear me. In Jesus' name, amen.