饶恕与和好 · Forgiveness & reconciliation · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
被误会时不反击Not retaliating when misunderstood
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
不要以恶报恶、众人以为美的事、要留心去作。 若是能行、总要尽力与众人和睦。 亲爱的弟兄、不要自己伸冤、宁可让步、听凭主怒．因为经上记着、『主说、伸冤在我．我必报应。』 所以『你的仇敌若饿了、就给他吃．若渴了、就给他喝．因为你这样行、就是把炭火堆在他的头上。』 你不可为恶所胜、反要以善胜恶。
English
Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
罗马书 12 劝勉信徒不报复，并在力所能及的范围寻求和平。这段也把审判交给神；应用时应区分和平、恢复亲近和保障安全。 有人误解我的做法，我想用更刺耳的话让他也难受。在这个具体处境中，先看清已经发生的事，再分辨我能承担的部分。信仰的回应可以在一次诚实的表达与一个具体行动中慢慢展开。 今天可以这样练习：先离开争辩片刻，准备一段只说明事实和请求的回应。
English
Romans 12 urges believers to refuse revenge and seek peace as far as possible, entrusting judgment to God. Application must distinguish peace, renewed closeness, and safety. Someone misunderstands me, and I want to hurt them back with sharper words. Begin with what actually happened and distinguish your responsibilities. A faithful response can unfold through honest words and a concrete action. A practice for today: Step back briefly and prepare a response focused on facts and a request.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「被误会时不反击」中，哪项需要还没说清？我可以怎样尊重自己和别人？
English
In “Not retaliating when misunderstood”, which need remains unclear, and how can I respect myself and others?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
先离开争辩片刻，准备一段只说明事实和请求的回应。
English
Step back briefly and prepare a response focused on facts and a request.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，有人误解我的做法，我想用更刺耳的话让他也难受。求你帮助我诚实面对这里的感受，看清责任与限制。请让我从这一步开始：先离开争辩片刻，准备一段只说明事实和请求的回应。 在还没有答案的地方，求你赐我耐心，也让我愿意接受陪伴。奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, Someone misunderstands me, and I want to hurt them back with sharper words. Help me face these feelings honestly and recognize responsibilities and limits. Help me begin here: Step back briefly and prepare a response focused on facts and a request. Give me patience with unanswered questions and willingness to receive company. In Jesus' name, amen.