友谊与关系 · Friendship & relationships · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
我们喜欢的东西不同 · 选择一小步Different interests · Choose one small step
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
我亲爱的弟兄们、这是你们所知道的．但你们各人要快快的听、慢慢的说、慢慢的动怒． 因为人的怒气、并不成就 神的义。 所以你们要脱去一切的污秽、和盈余的邪恶、存温柔的心领受那所栽种的道、就是能救你们灵魂的道。 只是你们要行道、不要单单听道、自己欺哄自己． 因为听道而不行道的、就像人对着镜子看自己本来的面目． 看见、走后、随即忘了他的相貌如何。 惟有详细察看那全备使人自由之律法的、并且时常如此、这人既不是听了就忘、乃是实在行出来、就在他所行的事上必然得福。
English
Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God. Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls. But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
雅各书把听道与行道连接起来，先提到倾听、说话和怒气。默想这段，可以从检视自己在关系中如何听、如何回应开始。 朋友不再喜欢同一种活动，我担心关系会因此结束。在这个具体处境中，先看清已经发生的事，再分辨我能承担的部分。信仰的回应可以在一次诚实的表达与一个具体行动中慢慢展开。 今天可以这样练习：各提出一种愿意尝试的相聚方式，找一个共同接受的选择。 回应经文不一定是宏大的决定。一个能在今天完成的小行动，可能比笼统地要求自己改变更诚实。
English
James connects hearing with doing, first addressing listening, speech, and anger. Reflection can begin by examining how we hear and respond in relationships. Our interests change, and I worry the friendship has nothing left. Begin with what actually happened and distinguish your responsibilities. A faithful response can unfold through honest words and a concrete action. A practice for today: Each suggest an activity you would try and find an option both welcome. Responding to Scripture need not mean a grand decision. One achievable action today may be more honest than a vague promise to change.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「我们喜欢的东西不同」中，今天哪一步在我的责任范围内？
English
As I reflect on “Different interests”: Which step is within my responsibility today?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
从这篇原有的实践建议里，选最小的一步并安排时间。 各提出一种愿意尝试的相聚方式，找一个共同接受的选择。
English
Choose the smallest part of this reading's practice and put it on today's calendar. Each suggest an activity you would try and find an option both welcome.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，朋友不再喜欢同一种活动，我担心关系会因此结束。赐我勇气去做今天能做的事，也让我接纳自己的有限。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, Our interests change, and I worry the friendship has nothing left. Give me courage to do what I can today and grace to accept my limits. In Jesus' name, amen.