哀伤与失去 · Grief & loss · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
老屋不再属于我们 · 看见身边的人Leaving the old home · Notice the people involved
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
大卫的诗、交与伶长。耶和华阿、你忘记我要到几时呢．要到永远么．你掩面不顾我要到几时呢． 我心里筹算、终日愁苦、要到几时呢．我的仇敌升高压制我、要到几时呢。 耶和华我的 神阿、求你看顾我、应允我、使我眼目光明、免得我沉睡至死． 免得我的仇敌说、我胜了他．免得我的敌人在我摇动的时候喜乐。 但我倚靠你的慈爱．我的心因你的救恩快乐。 我要向耶和华歌唱、因他用厚恩待我。
English
To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David. How long wilt thou forget me, O LORD? for ever? how long wilt thou hide thy face from me? How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart daily? how long shall mine enemy be exalted over me? Consider and hear me, O LORD my God: lighten mine eyes, lest I sleep the sleep of death; Lest mine enemy say, I have prevailed against him; and those that trouble me rejoice when I am moved. But I have trusted in thy mercy; my heart shall rejoice in thy salvation. I will sing unto the LORD, because he hath dealt bountifully with me.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
诗篇 13 的祷告从长久等待中的呼喊，走向对神慈爱的倚靠。哀诉与信靠出现在同一首诗里，提醒我们不必隐藏悲伤才能祷告。 老屋交接以后，我舍不得在那里经历过的日常。在这个具体处境中，先看清已经发生的事，再分辨我能承担的部分。信仰的回应可以在一次诚实的表达与一个具体行动中慢慢展开。 今天可以这样练习：选一张照片，记录在那里学到的一件事，带入新的生活。 我的处境也牵连着别人。认真分辨谁需要被倾听、谁能提供支持，以及哪些边界需要被尊重。
English
Psalm 13 moves from cries during prolonged waiting toward trust in God's mercy. Lament and trust belong in the same psalm; grief need not be hidden before praying. After handing over an old home, I miss the ordinary life it held. Begin with what actually happened and distinguish your responsibilities. A faithful response can unfold through honest words and a concrete action. A practice for today: Choose a photograph and record one lesson from that home to carry forward. My situation also involves other people. Consider who needs to be heard, who can offer support, and which boundaries deserve respect.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「老屋不再属于我们」中，谁的需要还没有被我听见？
English
As I reflect on “Leaving the old home”: Whose need have I not yet heard?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
向一位合适的人提出一个具体、尊重边界的问题。
English
Ask an appropriate person one specific question while respecting boundaries.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，老屋交接以后，我舍不得在那里经历过的日常。帮助我在关心自己时，也以尊重和爱对待身边的人。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, After handing over an old home, I miss the ordinary life it held. Help me care for myself while treating those around me with respect and love. In Jesus' name, amen.