抉择与引导 · Decisions & guidance · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
选错以后还能调整Adjusting after a choice
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
我儿、不要忘记我的法则．你心要谨守我的诫命． 因为他必将长久的日子、生命的年数、与平安、加给你。 不可使慈爱诚实离开你．要系在你颈项上、刻在你心版上． 这样、你必在 神和世人眼前蒙恩宠、有聪明。 你要专心仰赖耶和华、不可倚靠自己的聪明． 在你一切所行的事上、都要认定他、他必指引你的路。 不要自以为有智慧．要敬畏耶和华、远离恶事． 这便医治你的肚脐、滋润你的百骨。
English
My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments: For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee. Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart: So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man. Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil. It shall be health to thy navel, and marrow to thy bones.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
箴言 3 把信靠、谦卑与生活道路连在一起。智慧文学给出塑造生命的方向，不能被当作一次选择必定顺利的预测公式。 决定以后发现新资料，我怕改口表示没有信心。在这个具体处境中，先看清已经发生的事，再分辨我能承担的部分。信仰的回应可以在一次诚实的表达与一个具体行动中慢慢展开。 今天可以这样练习：核实新资料的影响，说明调整理由，并负责处理相关后果。
English
Proverbs 3 connects trust and humility with life's path. Wisdom literature shapes a direction for life rather than predicting that any particular choice will succeed. New information appears after a decision, and changing course feels like failure. Begin with what actually happened and distinguish your responsibilities. A faithful response can unfold through honest words and a concrete action. A practice for today: Verify the impact, explain any adjustment, and take responsibility for its effects.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「选错以后还能调整」中，哪项需要还没说清？我可以怎样尊重自己和别人？
English
In “Adjusting after a choice”, which need remains unclear, and how can I respect myself and others?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
核实新资料的影响，说明调整理由，并负责处理相关后果。
English
Verify the impact, explain any adjustment, and take responsibility for its effects.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，决定以后发现新资料，我怕改口表示没有信心。求你帮助我诚实面对这里的感受，看清责任与限制。请让我从这一步开始：核实新资料的影响，说明调整理由，并负责处理相关后果。 在还没有答案的地方，求你赐我耐心，也让我愿意接受陪伴。奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, New information appears after a decision, and changing course feels like failure. Help me face these feelings honestly and recognize responsibilities and limits. Help me begin here: Verify the impact, explain any adjustment, and take responsibility for its effects. Give me patience with unanswered questions and willingness to receive company. In Jesus' name, amen.