养育与成长 · Parenting & growth · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
听懂孩子说不要 · 回顾并继续同行Understanding a child's no · Review and keep going
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
以色列阿、你要听．耶和华我们 神是独一的主。 你要尽心、尽性、尽力、爱耶和华你的 神。 我今日所吩咐你的话、都要记在心上． 也要殷勤教训你的儿女、无论你坐在家里、行在路上、躺下、起来、都要谈论。 也要系在手上为记号、戴在额上为经文。 又要写在你房屋的门框上、并你的城门上。
English
Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD: And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
申命记 6 向以色列讲述爱神与把教导带入日常生活。亲子应用可以从真实的相处开始，让学习进入作息和对话，而不只成为知识考试。 孩子拒绝一个安排，我只听见不听话，没有问原因。在这个具体处境中，先看清已经发生的事，再分辨我能承担的部分。信仰的回应可以在一次诚实的表达与一个具体行动中慢慢展开。 今天可以这样练习：在适合年龄的范围内询问原因，再清楚说明必要要求和可选部分。 回顾不是给自己评分，而是看见哪里有一点变化、哪里仍然需要时间与别人的陪伴。成长可以缓慢，也可以寻求帮助。
English
Deuteronomy 6 addresses Israel about loving God and bringing teaching into daily life. Parenting application can begin with routines and conversation rather than treating faith as a knowledge exam. A child refuses a plan, and I hear only disobedience. Begin with what actually happened and distinguish your responsibilities. A faithful response can unfold through honest words and a concrete action. A practice for today: Ask the reason appropriately for the child's age, then distinguish necessities from choices. Review is not a scorecard. Notice small changes, what still needs time, and where another person's company may help. Growth can be slow.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「听懂孩子说不要」中，这一周什么有变化？下一步我需要谁的支持？
English
As I reflect on “Understanding a child's no”: What changed this week, and whose support do I need next?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
写下一项变化与一项仍需帮助的事。
English
Write down one change and one area where you still need help.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，孩子拒绝一个安排，我只听见不听话，没有问原因。谢谢你陪伴我走到这里。请让我耐心继续，也愿意接受合适的帮助。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, A child refuses a plan, and I hear only disobedience. Thank you for accompanying me this far. Help me continue patiently and receive fitting support. In Jesus' name, amen.