服事与社区 · Service & community · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
请求反馈的勇气Asking for feedback
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
耶稣叫他们来对他们说、你们知道、外邦人有尊为君王的、治理他们．有大臣操权管束他们。 只是在你们中间、不是这样．你们中间、谁愿为大、就必作你们的用人． 在你们中间、谁愿为首、就必作众人的仆人。 因为人子来、并不是要受人的服事、乃是要服事人、并且要舍命、作多人的赎价。
English
But Jesus called them to him, and saith unto them, Ye know that they which are accounted to rule over the Gentiles exercise lordship over them; and their great ones exercise authority upon them. But so shall it not be among you: but whosoever will be great among you, shall be your minister: And whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all. For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
马可福音这段对话发生在门徒讨论地位的语境中。耶稣以服事重新解释伟大，也以自己的使命说明这条道路。 我怕听到不足，所以从不询问自己的帮助是否合适。在这个具体处境中，先看清已经发生的事，再分辨我能承担的部分。信仰的回应可以在一次诚实的表达与一个具体行动中慢慢展开。 今天可以这样练习：问一个具体问题：哪一部分有帮助，哪一部分需要调整。
English
This conversation in Mark concerns the disciples' desire for status. Jesus redefines greatness through service and illustrates the path through his own mission. Fear of criticism keeps me from asking whether my help fits. Begin with what actually happened and distinguish your responsibilities. A faithful response can unfold through honest words and a concrete action. A practice for today: Ask specifically what helped and what should change.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「请求反馈的勇气」中，哪项需要还没说清？我可以怎样尊重自己和别人？
English
In “Asking for feedback”, which need remains unclear, and how can I respect myself and others?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
问一个具体问题：哪一部分有帮助，哪一部分需要调整。
English
Ask specifically what helped and what should change.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，我怕听到不足，所以从不询问自己的帮助是否合适。求你帮助我诚实面对这里的感受，看清责任与限制。请让我从这一步开始：问一个具体问题：哪一部分有帮助，哪一部分需要调整。 在还没有答案的地方，求你赐我耐心，也让我愿意接受陪伴。奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, Fear of criticism keeps me from asking whether my help fits. Help me face these feelings honestly and recognize responsibilities and limits. Help me begin here: Ask specifically what helped and what should change. Give me patience with unanswered questions and willingness to receive company. In Jesus' name, amen.