养育与成长 · Parenting & growth · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
青春期的争执Conflict with a teenager
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
以色列阿、你要听．耶和华我们 神是独一的主。 你要尽心、尽性、尽力、爱耶和华你的 神。 我今日所吩咐你的话、都要记在心上． 也要殷勤教训你的儿女、无论你坐在家里、行在路上、躺下、起来、都要谈论。 也要系在手上为记号、戴在额上为经文。 又要写在你房屋的门框上、并你的城门上。
English
Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD: And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
申命记 6 向以色列讲述爱神与把教导带入日常生活。亲子应用可以从真实的相处开始，让学习进入作息和对话，而不只成为知识考试。 孩子逐渐有自己的想法，我们经常争执。不同意见不必成为敌意；尊重正在成长的人，也需要清晰而合理的界限。今天可以从一个小而具体的回应开始：一起讨论一项规则及其理由。
English
Deuteronomy 6 addresses Israel about loving God and bringing teaching into daily life. Parenting application can begin with routines and conversation rather than treating faith as a knowledge exam. My teenager's growing independence leads to arguments. Disagreement need not become hostility. Respect growth while keeping clear reasonable boundaries. Begin with a small concrete response today: Discuss one household rule and its reasons together.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
面对“青春期的争执”，我最需要诚实承认什么？今天如何实践这段经文？
English
As I reflect on “Conflict with a teenager”, what do I need to acknowledge honestly? How could I practice this passage today?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
一起讨论一项规则及其理由。
English
Discuss one household rule and its reasons together.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，孩子逐渐有自己的想法，我们经常争执。求你在这个处境中陪伴我，使我不必隐藏真实的感受。不同意见不必成为敌意；尊重正在成长的人，也需要清晰而合理的界限。请赐我分辨与勇气，让我今天愿意这样回应：一起讨论一项规则及其理由。当结果还未明朗时，帮助我耐心尽自己的责任，也接受可信之人的支持。愿我的言语与行动显出爱，把无法掌握的部分交托给你。奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, My teenager's growing independence leads to arguments. Be with me here and help me bring my feelings honestly before you. Disagreement need not become hostility. Respect growth while keeping clear reasonable boundaries. Give me wisdom and courage to respond today: Discuss one household rule and its reasons together. While the outcome is uncertain, help me fulfill my responsibilities patiently and receive support from trustworthy people. Let my words and actions show love as I entrust what I cannot control to you. In Jesus' name, amen.