养育与成长 · Parenting & growth · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
青春期的争执 · 看见身边的人Conflict with a teenager · Notice the people involved
小羊寻光原创 · SeekLight original
经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
以色列阿、你要听．耶和华我们 神是独一的主。 你要尽心、尽性、尽力、爱耶和华你的 神。 我今日所吩咐你的话、都要记在心上． 也要殷勤教训你的儿女、无论你坐在家里、行在路上、躺下、起来、都要谈论。 也要系在手上为记号、戴在额上为经文。 又要写在你房屋的门框上、并你的城门上。
English
Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD: And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
申命记 6 向以色列讲述爱神与把教导带入日常生活。亲子应用可以从真实的相处开始，让学习进入作息和对话，而不只成为知识考试。 孩子逐渐有自己的想法，我们经常争执。不同意见不必成为敌意；尊重正在成长的人，也需要清晰而合理的界限。今天可以从一个小而具体的回应开始：一起讨论一项规则及其理由。 我的处境也牵连着别人。认真分辨谁需要被倾听、谁能提供支持，以及哪些边界需要被尊重。
English
Deuteronomy 6 addresses Israel about loving God and bringing teaching into daily life. Parenting application can begin with routines and conversation rather than treating faith as a knowledge exam. My teenager's growing independence leads to arguments. Disagreement need not become hostility. Respect growth while keeping clear reasonable boundaries. Begin with a small concrete response today: Discuss one household rule and its reasons together. My situation also involves other people. Consider who needs to be heard, who can offer support, and which boundaries deserve respect.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「青春期的争执」中，谁的需要还没有被我听见？
English
As I reflect on “Conflict with a teenager”: Whose need have I not yet heard?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
向一位合适的人提出一个具体、尊重边界的问题。
English
Ask an appropriate person one specific question while respecting boundaries.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，孩子逐渐有自己的想法，我们经常争执。帮助我在关心自己时，也以尊重和爱对待身边的人。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, My teenager's growing independence leads to arguments. Help me care for myself while treating those around me with respect and love. In Jesus' name, amen.