养育与成长 · Parenting & growth · 灵修案例 · Devotional example
青春期的争执 · 选择一小步Conflict with a teenager · Choose one small step
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经文 · 和合本 1919 / KJV（公版） · Scripture · CUV 1919 / KJV (public domain)
以色列阿、你要听．耶和华我们 神是独一的主。 你要尽心、尽性、尽力、爱耶和华你的 神。 我今日所吩咐你的话、都要记在心上． 也要殷勤教训你的儿女、无论你坐在家里、行在路上、躺下、起来、都要谈论。 也要系在手上为记号、戴在额上为经文。 又要写在你房屋的门框上、并你的城门上。
English
Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD: And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.
在生活中默想 · 灵修解释 · Reflecting in daily life · Devotional interpretation
申命记 6 向以色列讲述爱神与把教导带入日常生活。亲子应用可以从真实的相处开始，让学习进入作息和对话，而不只成为知识考试。 孩子逐渐有自己的想法，我们经常争执。不同意见不必成为敌意；尊重正在成长的人，也需要清晰而合理的界限。今天可以从一个小而具体的回应开始：一起讨论一项规则及其理由。 回应经文不一定是宏大的决定。一个能在今天完成的小行动，可能比笼统地要求自己改变更诚实。
English
Deuteronomy 6 addresses Israel about loving God and bringing teaching into daily life. Parenting application can begin with routines and conversation rather than treating faith as a knowledge exam. My teenager's growing independence leads to arguments. Disagreement need not become hostility. Respect growth while keeping clear reasonable boundaries. Begin with a small concrete response today: Discuss one household rule and its reasons together. Responding to Scripture need not mean a grand decision. One achievable action today may be more honest than a vague promise to change.
留给自己的问题 · A question to sit with
在「青春期的争执」中，今天哪一步在我的责任范围内？
English
As I reflect on “Conflict with a teenager”: Which step is within my responsibility today?
今天的一小步 · One small step today
从这篇原有的实践建议里，选最小的一步并安排时间。 一起讨论一项规则及其理由。
English
Choose the smallest part of this reading's practice and put it on today's calendar. Discuss one household rule and its reasons together.
回应祷告 · Prayer response
天父，孩子逐渐有自己的想法，我们经常争执。赐我勇气去做今天能做的事，也让我接纳自己的有限。 奉耶稣的名，阿们。
English
Father, My teenager's growing independence leads to arguments. Give me courage to do what I can today and grace to accept my limits. In Jesus' name, amen.